Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Idea's + We + Action = Change! Fayetteville, NC
Monday, October 29, 2012
Getting Involved in the Community, Empower Martial Arts Fayetteville, NC
This weekend EMA
Instructors had the privilege of judging and networking at the “Trick or Treat
Bash Open Tournament.” Martial arts studios from all over NC showed up to
compete, make friends, and improve their skill set. The tournament was for all
ages, ranks, and skill levels and offered competitions in the categories of
weapons, open hand forms, point sparring, continuous sparring, grappling, and
overall grand champion. For students and parents that are interested in
competing at a tournament, contact Mr. Holgerson at tj_holgerson@hotmail.com or by phone at (913)-754-6570.
EMA also attended the
STCNow or (Stop Child Trafficking Now) walk near downtown Fayetteville to raise
money and awareness about child and sex trafficking. The event was put together
very well with many volunteers and churches making the event a success! For
more pictures and information check out EMA’s facebook page at: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Empower-Martial-Arts/207343829305955?ref=hl or flickr page at http://www.flickr.com/photos/tjholgerson.
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Friday, October 26, 2012
No Rules Self-Defense Fayetteville, NC
It’s very important that you remember when it comes to
self-defense there are NO RULES. When you feel threatened, in trouble, or in
any kind of danger, your only job is to get away quickly and safely as
fast as possible.
The last thing you should have on your mind is to follow
rules such as: I don’t want to draw attention to myself, I don’t want to lie,
and I don’t want to hit someone. As master Tom Callos puts it, “HIT and hit
HARD, LIE and lie BIG, don’t be afraid to throw a rock through someone’s window
to get attention!” Bite, scratch, yell, stomp, kick, and throw things to get
away and get away quickly.
Look for clues, be assertive, and be aware of the
environment around you. Be aware of dark hallways, dark parking lots, strange
characters by themselves, areas of town that become dangerous late at night,
and anything that makes your hair stand up are all early signs of possible
danger. However, there are some types of
danger that cannot be predicted and happen very quickly, such as car accidents
or sport injuries.
Finally, never allow a situation that’s not good to get
worse, or extremely dangerous. When a situation doesn’t feel right, trust your instincts, get away, and get help
quickly.
Thursday, October 25, 2012
FREE Seminars For Parents, Empower Martial Arts
FREE Bully Prevention
Seminar for Parents typically takes about 1 to 1.5 hours. Think about it: in
just 1.5 hours, you will learn how to identify bullying behaviors and what you
can do for your child if they are being bullied or are the bully. You will also
learn the steps you need to follow when dealing with teachers and your school
to provide the best protection for your child.
Click on the link http://balancedlifeskills.com/bully-prevention/workshops/parents
and sign up for this free workshop. Even if your children are Home-schooled it
can still be a very worthwhile conference.
This website also offers a
FREE workshop on suicide prevention. How to detect the warning signs, know how
to offer help, and know how to get help and save a life! Click the link http://balancedlifeskills.com/suicide-prevention
to get started!
For more information or
questions, leave a comment below or e-mail tj_holgerson@hotmail.com
Knowledge and awareness
are the first steps in true self-defense.
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
The Power of Your Voice, Empower Martial Arts
When most people think of Karate or Tae-Kwon-Do, the first
thing that comes to their minds is the crane pose from The Karate Kid or a goofy yell. In martial arts this goofy yell is
called a “ki-hap” and it serves several purposes.
The main purpose of a “ki-hap” is to increase your power
when executing a technique. Science has shown how exhaling simultaneously with
a technique can increase your power by up to 15%. It causes a small burst of
adrenaline to escape while at the same time reminding you to breathe when
you’re nervous.
Yelling is also a great way to draw attention to yourself if
you are feeling threatened or are being attacked. The worst thing you can do is
freeze up and not say anything. Yelling can signal other people to help you or
even scare the aggressor away entirely.
For testing purposes, ki-hap’s are used as a form of
communication to signal your partner during one-step drills and self-defense
routines. This is one way of showing respect to your opponent by making sure
they have a plan before attacking.
Finally yelling is a great form of stress relief that is
generally frowned upon in many activities. Coming from a stressful day at work
or having trouble with bullies at school, EMA
wants to relieve your stress and build confidence through the power of your
voice!
For more information or questions on this topic or how to
get involved in Empower Martial Arts contact Mr. Holgerson at tj_holgerson@hotmail.com or leave a
comment below.
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Friday, October 19, 2012
Safety Tips For Your Children From Empower Martial Arts
Just in case you didn’t know, pedestrian injury is still the
second leading cause of unintentional injury-related death in children ages
5-14. Because a child’s size and cognitive ability are constantly developing,
in addition to environmental risks such as speeding motorists there are many
hazards that contribute to accidents and injuries. Here are some great tips
from resources www.safekids.org and www.childrensafetyzone.com.
Teach safe behaviors:
Practice safe behaviors:
Teach safe behaviors:
- Look left, right and left again before crossing the street. Cross
when the street is clear, and keep looking both ways while crossing. Walk,
don't run.
- Understand and obey traffic signals and signs.
- Walk facing traffic, on sidewalks or paths, so that you can see
oncoming cars. If there are no sidewalks, walk as far to the left as
possible.
Practice safe behaviors:
- Don’t allow a child under age 10 to cross streets alone as he may
not be able to fully appreciate the speed of cars on the road.
- Require children to carry a flashlight at night, dawn and dusk. Add
retroreflective materials to children’s clothing so that a child can be
seen by motorists, even in the dark.
- Don't let kids play in driveways, unfenced yards, streets or
parking lots. Drivers may not see or anticipate children playing.
For more
information on safety tips and how to get involved with Empower Martial Arts
Contact Mr. Holgerson at tj_holgerson@hotmail.com
or by phone at (913)-754-6570.
Thursday, October 18, 2012
Empower Martial Arts Taekwondo Program is Here! Fayetteville, N.C.
Tonight was EMA’s
first official workout class! If you or your children are interested at all in
trying EMA’s Taekwondo program, join us on Thursday nights at Hammond Hills
Neighborhood Center at the corner of Bastogne and Normandy for an exciting traditional
Taekwondo class hosted by Mr. Holgerson.
Oh and did I
mention it’s FREE! There will be 2 class times, one from 5:00pm-5:45pm for
6-12yr olds, and another from 6:00pm-6:45pm for 13yrs and up. This will not be
available forever and classes are limited, so call 913-754-6570 to reserve a
spot.
There is also a
toddler room for parents with younger children that includes a window to watch
classes.
Bring any clothes
you don’t mind sweating in (no jeans please) and join us on Thursday night! For
more questions and information contact Mr. Holgerson at tj_holgerson@hotmail.com or by phone
at 913-754-6570, also check out EMA’s facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/pages/Empower-Martial-Arts/207343829305955?ref=hl
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50 Awesome Pre and Post-Workout Snacks!
Kellie Davis of greatist.org had some great Pre and Post-Workout snacks I wanted to share with you.
Pre-Workout Snacks
The body works to build muscle and recover 24 hours a day, not just during that one-hour session at the gym. Luckily, smartly timed snacks can give the body the fuel it needs to gain muscle, burn fat, and recover as best it can. Pre-workout, that usually means grabbing a snack about 30-60 minutes in advance, depending on its size and contents, and how much that stomach’s actually grumbling. All ready to go? Check out these 25 options to start things right:
1. Protein Creamcicle: Put a twist on the classic kids’ treat by blending 1 scoop vanilla whey protein powder, 1 cup orange juice, and 1 cup ice. Trainer and fitness expert @JCDFitness does it!
2. Fruitsation shake: Blend 1 scoop of your favorite whey protein flavor with ½ cup ice, and 1 cup frozen berries for a sweet energy boost, suggests strength coach @Roglaw.
3. Cha-Cha coconut shake: Infuse 1 scoop chocolate whey protein with 2 teaspoons of extra virgin coconut oil. Girls Gone Strong co-founder @JenComasKeck loves this!
4. Star-buffs shake: Need a pre-workout pick-me-up? Greatist’s fitness editor suggests blending 1 cup iced coffee (keep the ice) with 1 scoop chocolate whey protein.
5. Dressed up oats: Load up on carbohydrates for a longer workout with ½ cup cooked steel-cut oats topped with 1 tablespoon dried fruit and 1 tablespoon shaved almonds.
6. Perfect yogurt parfait: Feeling fancy, huh? Top ¼ cup nonfat yogurt with ½ cup whole grain cereal and ½ cup fresh strawberries.
7. Yoberries a-go-go: For the perfect blend of carbs and protein, try 1 cup non-fat vanilla bean Greek yogurt — which often packs more protein and probiotics than regular plain yogurt — with ½ cup fresh blueberries.
8. Eggs n’ toast: Have a heartier appetite? Try 1 or 2 hard-boiled eggs with 1 slice of whole-wheat toast.
9. Fruit and Cottage: Top ½ cup cottage cheese — a low calorie and higher protein option — with ½ cup fresh pineapple, berries, or melon. And voila!
10. PB Apple: For a quick carb fuel-up, slice 1 medium apple and serve with 2 tablespoons all-natural peanut butter.
11. Classic fruit cup: Prefer to keep it sweet but simple? Combine 1 cup berries, melon, banana, and oranges — oh my!
12. Dried fruit: For a quick pre-workout fix, try ¼ cup serving of dried berries, apricots, and pineapple, says Greatist Expert Jessica Redmond.
13. Fruit leather: Need something light that makes you feel like a kid again? Try 1 single serving of fruit leather. Have a little extra time? Roll some out in the kitchen.
14. Energy in a bar: With so many options in the aisle, try opting for a bar with the most natural ingredients. While protein count is key, also check the sugar content (it shouldn’t rival what’s found in the candy aisle!).
15. Chicken n’ sweets: For a fast bite, grab 2-4 ounces (or a palm-sized amount) of sliced chicken with an equal portion size of sweet potatoes, suggests Greatist Expert Dan Trink.
16. Oats n’ eggs: Not just for breakfast, try ½ cup cooked oatmeal and 2 whole eggs seasoned with salt and pepper.
17. PB & B toast: Fuel up with 1-2 tablespoons of all-natural peanut butter and half a sliced banana on whole-wheat toast, says Greatist Expert Lisa Moskovitz.
18. Turk-cado pasta: Add 2-4 ounces (or a palm-sized amount) of roasted turkey and 3-4 avocado slices to ½ cup cooked whole-wheat pasta for some enviable eats.
19. Wafflewich: Spruce up this classic by combining 1 frozen Kashi waffle with 2 teaspoons of almond butter and 1 teaspoon of jam.
20. Better than a PB Cup: A half-cup cooked oats with 1 teaspoon defatted peanut flour, a dash of stevia, and a sprinkling of cocoa powder on top — a concoction from the kitchen of Greatist contributor David Butler.
21. Veggie omelet: Add a little more color to your diet by combining 2 whole eggs shaken with 1 teaspoon of water cooked with 1 cup sautéed seasonal veggies.
22. Rice con leche: Got a long way to run? Fuel up with ½ cup cooked rice, covered with ½ cup milk, a scatter of raisins, and a dash of cinnamon on top.
23. Sports drink: An 8-ounce low sugar sports drink (keep it under 10 grams of sugar) will do the trick if you’re in a crunch. For a little more fuel, add a scoop of BCAA powder— branch chain amino acids that help maintain muscle and tissue health[1].
24. Hearty salad: Need some greens? Try 1 cup of salad greens with assorted veggies, 1 hardboiled egg, and a drizzle of EVOO and vinegar, or your favorite low-fat dressing.
25. Energy gel: Got a long way to go? Slurp down a energy gel (like Gu) prior to an endurance workout.
Post-Workout Snacks
After a tough gym session, post-workout snacks are an imporant way to restore energy and rebuild muscle, too. Downed within two hours after exercise, protein-packed shakes and snacks are a great way to rebuild tissue that breaks down during exercise. Here are 25 ways to end that workout on a high note:
26. Protein pancakes: From the kitchen of Greatist contributor Laura Skladzinski, mix 4 egg whites, ½ cup rolled oats, ½ cup low fat cottage cheese, 1/8 teaspoon baking powder, and ½ teaspoon pure vanilla extract. Cook on preheated griddle (medium low heat) until it bubbles, then flip and cook another 30-60 seconds. Top with fresh berries or sliced banana.
27. Sweet potato pie shake: This isn’t your grandma’s recipe. Combine 1 scoop of cinnamon bun whey protein, ¼ cup diced cooked sweet potato, 1 cup of ice, and 1 cup vanilla almond milk in the blender — a Kellie Davis original.
28. Chunky Monkey shake: Monkey around with 1 medium banana, 1 tablespoon peanut butter, and 1 cup low-fat chocolate milk blended with ice.
29. Double G shake: Aussie strength coach @Rachel_Guy1 recommends an 8-ounce greens drink (any superfood blend found at most health food stores) with 1 scoop of glutamine.
30. Double Trouble shake: To lengthen the delivery time of nutrients to your muscles, combine ½ scoop of whey protein blended with ½ scoop slower-digesting casein protein, plus a handful of your favorite fresh or frozen fruit.
31. Bananarama: One medium sliced banana with 1 cup low fat milk — it doesn’t get any easier than this!
32. Protein bar: For a quick, store-bought fix, feed those muscles with a protein bar. Just watch the sugar content. Look for bars with 10-30 grams of protein, less than 10 grams of sugar, and the fewest number of ingredients you can’t pronounce!
33. Beef and squash: Need something hearty? Try a handful of lean roast beef with an equal portion of butternut squash.
34. Tuna crackers: Mix up a batch of light tuna salad for a quick bite. Add two heaping spoonfuls to a handful of whole grain crackers, and chomp away.
35. Bagel with egg whites: Half a medium-sized whole grain bagel with 2 eggs whites makes a great post-workout sandwich.
36. Ants on a raft: The ants go marching… Spread a heap of natural peanut butter over a brown rice cake and top with raisins.
37. Milk and cereal: Any time is a good time for cereal. Add 1 cup of low-fat milk to 1 cup of whole-grain cereal. Nosh loudly.
38. Chocolate milk: One to two cups of low-fat chocolate milk seals the deal with extra carbs and protein.
39. Black bean omelet: Four eggs whites, 1 ounce low-fat cheese, and ¼ cup canned black beans — then spice it up with a savory salsa, if you dare.
40. Green Monster smoothie: Blend 4 cups spinach, ½ cup vanilla bean yogurt, 1 cup almond milk, 1 banana, and 1 tablespoon peanut butter with ice — a favorite of Greatist contributor Claudine Morgan via Iowa Girl Eats.
41. Cottage cheese crunch: One cup fat-free cottage cheese, 1 teaspoon honey, ½ cup whole-grain cereal, and a dash of cinnamon does a body good.
42. Eggy muffinwich: Ditch the fast-food and opt for 1 whole egg, fresh spinach, 1 slice low fat cheese, and 1 slice Canadian bacon served on an English muffin, suggests Greatist contributor Lisa LaValle Overmyer.
43. BCAA n’ cakes: When in doubt, just add cakes! Pair up two scoops of BCAA powder mixed in ice water with two rice cakes.
44. Recovery in a bottle: When time is of the essence, grab a store-bought recovery drink to sip on after training. Just check the label — sports recovery drinks will provide plenty of carbs refuel, or opt for aminos to really rebuild.
45. Apples and cheese: Tease your taste buds with 1 medium sliced apple and 1 stick of low-fat string cheese.
46. Pita and hummus: One 7-inch pita with two spoonfuls of hummus adds a little pep back to your step with quick digesting carbs.
47. Egg scramble: Veg out after a hard training session with 2-3 whole eggs scrambled with a handful of chopped onion, spinach, and bell peppers.
48. Choco-tropical trail mix: Go bananas for a blend of ½ a handful of each: macadamia nuts, dried coconut, dark chocolate chips, and banana chips.
49. AB & J Rice Cakes: Almond butter takes the cake. For this healthier twist on the classic PB & J, sandwich 1 tablespoon of almond butter and 1 teaspoon of strawberry jam between two rice cakes.
50. Chicken hash: After your workout grab 1 cup cooked diced chicken, ½ cup butternut squash and apples, roasted in olive oil, salt, and pepper. Make a big batch and store it in the fridge!
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Blood, Scrapes, Bruises… Are You Prepared for Reality?
Let’s face it. If you are targeted in a physical attack,
there is a very high percentage that you are going to at least feel a little
sore the following day. It is very rare that someone is attacked physically and
no harm or damage is inflicted during the process unless, of course, you are
Chuck Norris.
What Empower Martial Arts wants to prepare you for is the
reality that you will probably bleed or receive an injury during an attack. The
question is, “How will you respond when this happens?”
Everyone has heard of “Fight or Flight” before, correct?
When your adrenaline is pumping, your heart rate is very high, your tunnel
vision has kicked in, and your fine motor skills are useless, what do you do? Unfortunately
we cannot create the exact feeling and experience of this, but there are many
ways to develop the correct responses and actions to counter these attacks
through persistent practice.
The best way of course, to prevent these types of attacks is
to have a prevention mindset and always be aware of your surroundings and situation.
This is step number one. But if the situation is inevitable, you need to have
the CONFIDENCE and ABILITY to act quickly while under high stress. Some martial
arts facilities teach beat him down until you’re for sure the assailant is
immobile. Others say hit him with mace, kick to the groin, or run and scream. What
is best?
EMA is trained in several different types of self-defense,
but is not bias to any one specific style or the other, but rather utilizing
the strengths of the individual and the situation to insure the highest chance
of success.
There is no “quick fix” to this problem. It takes diligent
practice and time to develop the reflexes your body needs to survive during an
attack.
For more questions or if you are interested in EMA coming to
your school or business contact tj_holgerson@hotmail.com
or call (913)-754-6570.
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Tuesday, October 16, 2012
What to expect from a childrens martial arts class at EMA!
Expect there to be
one or more experienced teachers on the floor in your child’s class. Expect the
teacher to, at times, appear to have the patience of Job. Expect a bit more, Oh
how shall we say it? ENERGY, every so often. Expect the teacher, whether gently
guiding everyone along or cranking up the troops, to wear a smile (a happy
one!).
Expect a lot of
talk about respect, about leadership, about following directions, about good
manners, about anger, about a whole bunch of things just about any parent would
love to hear some OTHER adult talking to them about. That’s the way we do
it.
Expect a lot of
good-sleep-inducing exercise. And expect some special events, as one of our
primary goals is to teach our students to take what they practice on the mat
and apply it to other things (like school, like work, like fun, and -- to the
community).
Expect to look back
on your son or daughters martial arts lessons with great pleasure and fond
memories. Expect, genuinely, some very good times. Empower Martial Arts wants to show YOU and your children how to become safe, healthy, and a great leader! E-mail tj_holgerson@hotmail.com or call (913)-754-6570 for more information.
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Education, Application, and Perseverance Fayetteville, NC
Over the last week Empower Martial Arts instructors traveled
around the Midwest to increase their knowledge, training, teaching skills, and
passion for sharing martial arts! We want to thank Albert Bryant of Willard
Tae-Kwon-Do in Willard, Missouri for allowing EMA
to share their love of teaching with all of the students. The instructors,
staff members, and parents were very welcoming and kind. Mr. Harlow and Mr.
Holgerson were given the honor of teaching both the lower ranks class and the
high ranks class.
EMA then headed south to
spend the weekend with Grand Master McNealy in Arkansas. With numerous workouts
and trainings, each instructor was given personal one on one training with the
different masters of taekwondo. During this weekend, Mr. Holgerson also hosted
small tricking workouts to spark creativity and inspire students to push their
training to the next level! Extra trainings held by Grand Master McNealy
included tournament sparring, knife defense, kickboxing, and grappling.
EMA strives to lead by
example in building new friendships, lasting relationships, a mind that is
always learning, and increasing your fitness to live a healthy life. Success is
the journey, not the destination. For more pictures or questions check out EMA ’s
Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/pages/Empower-Martial-Arts/207343829305955?ref=hl,
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Friday, October 12, 2012
Committed to your Success! Empower Martial Arts Fayetteville, NC
Have you ever started something you were so excited about
that you couldn’t sleep? Or bought something you couldn’t keep your mind off
of? Many times this excitement is diminished after a period of time due to a
lack of direction and encouragement from those around you. Setting goals is
great! But are you following through on them or are you just hoping that they
will magically be reached?
EMA recognizes that some
people are highly self-motivated and others need you to hold their hand every
now and then. True strength of character is built in the times when you have
“hit the wall”, or lost the initial passion you started with. For instance, take
building a model airplane. If someone is expecting it to be done by the time
the fair arrives and is calling you to see how everything is coming along, you
will finish it because you know how badly you want to display your hard work
for all to see. In the same instance, if you are building a model airplane just
to have one and no one cares if you finish it, you probably will not finish. And
if you do finish, it may take much longer than you anticipated.
At Empower Martial Arts we want to know your goals and
exactly what we need to do to insure that you reach them! Accountability is the
best way to keep you on track and focused on what you really want. Leave a
comment below or e-mail tj_holgerson@hotmail.com
for more tips on reaching your goals and building a foundation for success!
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Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Cyberbullying Tips from Empower Martial Arts Fayetteville, NC
What is cyberbullying? What some people don’t realize is
that bullying doesn’t just happen in person. It also happens through multiple
electronic means of communication. Cyberbullying is when someone is harassing
you, threatening you, being mean to you, or embarrassing you publicly on the
internet. It can also occur through texts, e-mails, and other electronic
devices. According to Children’s Ministry Magazine, one-sixth of preteens say
they have had someone say something mean, embarrassing, and threatening to them
online and 16% told nobody about it.
Some of the most common websites where preteen and teens are
cyberbullied are facebook, youtube, twitter, blogs, myspace, and personal
websites.
How do you stop cyberbullying? Block them… go into your account settings and block the users who
are bullying you through their comments and e-mails. Many of these
websites do have a zero harassment policy outlined somewhere in their
agreement. Tell
someone… tell your parents, tell law enforcement and show them what
is being said about you online. These are the two best ways to reduce
cyberbullying and eliminate abusive and negative comments aimed at demeaning
you and ruining your character.
For more information e-mail tj_holgerson@hotmail.com or leave a
comment below. Here are some more tips to stop cyberbullying.
Saturday, October 6, 2012
Empower Martial Arts Tricking Fayetteville, NC
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Thursday, October 4, 2012
Dating Violence Knowledge from Empower Martial Arts
What is dating violence? When we talk about dating violence
we refer to young unmarried couples who have abusive relationships where
someone is getting hurt. Many times it is the female being hurt and other times
it is just generally violence where both are getting hurt. It is a great
problem for all races and economic levels. Some examples of physical abuse are
slapping, biting, kicking, throwing things, shoving, choking, and many others.
Other forms of abuse include intimidation or threatening, isolation, keeping
the partner away from his/her friends, brainwashing, and deprivation with
holding necessities.
If your wondering why this is going on you have to look into
multiple categories. Some say we just live in a violent society where men with
muscles are natural aggressors. Others believe it’s an issue of weaker taboo,
alcohol and drugs, lack consequences meaning the consequences are not enough to
stop the behavior, and cycle of abuse starting at routine moving to tension
then violence and then making up.
Why do they do it and why does the victim stay? Some abusive
boyfriends feel as if it is their right to control and dominate “their” woman.
Other times it’s a person who has never learned a healthy way to control “bad”
feelings—rage, anger, frustration, and jealousy. The biggest reason according
to statistics is the abuser has grown up in a abusive home where violence was
demonstrated often. They do a great job of playing the cool collected guy in
public that everyone wants to be with, thus attracting women especially ones
who love to be noticed, but once the relationship goes sexual many males
believe the female is his possession.
Women suffer from a cycle where the first incident leaves
her in shock and stunned. The male then convinces her it will never happen
again and begins abusive patters that slowly become part of the relationship.
Note almost all abuse starts only after sex has become part of the picture. The
women then begins to lose self esteem after verbal abuse and is to afraid to
tell anyone about her situation.
Sadly many cases never get reported, here is what you need
to do if you have been abused. Acknowledge your situation and know it’s not
healthy, TELL SOMEONE, gain some distance from abuser, get medical, legal, and
emotional help, and begin a path towards recovery. The 24-hour domestic
violence hotline is 1-(800)-799-SAFE .
For more information on this topic leave a comment below or
e-mail tj_holgerson@hotmail.com
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
What is Empower Martial Arts All About?
Empower Martial Arts is a group of teachers/educators who
use the tool of “martial arts” to change lives. We want students to know what
if looks and feels like to make a difference in the community. We want to hear stories
from others saying how your training has influenced their lives! We want
everyone to see how martial arts can relieve stress, improve grades in school,
develop a healthy life style, help you lose weight, and challenge you to better
yourself each and every day.
EMA is all about leading
by example. Living what you preach and walking the walk is the most powerful
form of influencing and challenging others. How can we expect you to be fit,
healthy, and goal oriented if we aren’t? It’s not fair for us to expect you to
practice outside of class, set higher goals, and push yourself if we aren’t. EMA
is committed to giving everyone the best chance for success in every aspect of
life.
EMA is committed toward
building strong relationships, empowering students to give their best every
class, and enhancing character development. All of this is accomplished through
positive correction rather than criticism.
Lastly, EMA is all about equipping
you for the future. Preparing you with the physical skills needed to defend
yourself, preparing your children for future job interviews and social
interaction, and preparing you to be leaders in the community.
Leave a comment below or e-mail tj_holgerson@hotmail.com for more
information.
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Tuesday, October 2, 2012
What is Resilience? Empower Martial Arts Fayetteville, NC
Resilience is the ability to bounce back in the face of
adversity, to grow and thrive during hard challenges. This concept is built
around a group of core competencies that enables mental toughness, optimal
performance, strong leadership, and goal achievement. How do I bounce back?
EMA
instructors are not just teachers but “educators.” Awareness is the first step
towards prevention and leading a better life! for questions leave a comment
below or e-mail tj_holgerson@hotmail.com
Empower Martial Arts is here to
help you identify your top character strengths to give you the tools needed to
overcome adversity. Some of these skills include Self Awareness: Identify
thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and patterns in thinking. Self Regulation: Regulate
behaviors, control emotions and impulses to express your emotions
appropriately. Optimism: Maintain a clear head, look for the good, identify
what’s controllable, and remain realistic. Mental Agility: Understanding problems by
thinking flexibly and accurately. Connection: Building a foundation around
clear communication that is positive and effective. And last but not least is Strengths of
Character: Knowing what you’re capable of and playing to your
strengths.
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Monday, October 1, 2012
I Am Over 30, Should I Consider Empower Martial Arts?
Well yes, and no
You should consider a regular, daily, exercise program. A sensible one; one that
starts slow and lets your fitness sneak up on you (rather than hitting you over the head
with it).
A
martial arts program certainly has the potential to be a wonderfully complete
training program, as it includes stretching, strength training, aerobic
exercise, and requires a kind of mental focus akin to deep meditation. That is,
if the instructor you choose has the right kinds of experience. The instructors
at Empower Martial Arts have a great understanding of how to teach people of
all ages.
But
oh, find a great teacher and the martial arts can become your best friend. The
training can keep you supple, sharp, and clear thinking. A martial arts school,
directed by a conscientious teacher, can be a centering, inspiring, refreshing
place that you love going to --and leave thinking about your next session.
Yes,
look to the martial arts for new perspective on your life, after the age of 30.
It’s not too late, even at 40, 50, or 60. EMA
offers 2 free classes to all new students who walk in the door! No tricks, no
in your face salesmen, just friendly staff and instructors who want to help you
reach YOUR goals.
If
you’re thinking about taking classes, allow me to be the first to invite you
in. Mention that you’re over 30 and I will offer you 2 free lessons to try us out.
Warning: It’s fun, affordable, and invigorating. It’s never to late to start
working out. The most difficult aspect of exercise is taking that first step.
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